How to save a teenager from computer and internate addiction...| theganimikava

A dependency is gradually forming , which further and further removes them from the real world.

Why is this happening ?

Since adolescence , communication with their peers is of great importance for children . But not everyone has a normal relationship at school or beyond.

• The internet , with its practically unlimited possibilities , is easily becoming the main communication tool.
• Life is never without problems , and teenagers also have a lot of them.
• The computer allow you to leave ( or at least temporarily distract ) from real things that do not suit.
• In addition , the teenagers , who is still forming a will , feels that by performing certain operations on social networks or participating in the game , he can be a leader.
• Thus , virtual reality absorb a small person , preventing him from developing his true individual qualities.

How does internet addiction manifest :

• Inability to control the time spent on the computer.
• Loss of interest in other types of topics.
• Irritability and even , aggressiveness , if there are obstacles when entering the internet.
• Remoteness from others , problems in communicating with loved ones and friends.
• The desire to hide the true amount of time spent on the internet.
• Dull sensitivity to the shades ( nuances ) of human relationships.
• Developing uncertainly and tension in real communication with peers.

 Addicted people perceive reality distorted :

A person suffering from any kind of addiction , according to scientists , sees the world around him in two - tone.

• In one case, it is white : everything around is good and in its position , there is also nothing wrong and even more so dangerous.
• In another case , it is black : where everything is catastrophically bad and there is no way out.
• The bipolarity of perception drives the adolescent into a dead - end , accompanied by a sharp change in mood : either euphoria or depression.
• Such a narrowly focused perception of the surrounding reality ( white - black ) in itself is already a consequence of the destruction of personality.
• Therefore , one of the method of communication with such a person will be the return of his concept about the multicolored and vastness of the world around him.
• Then the emotional state will gradually begin to improve.
• Computer addiction is a kind of disease and one prohibition , such as do not sit on the internet for more than three hours , you will not achieve anything.

 How parents should act ?

• Establishing a dialogue with your son or daughter.
• First , you need to discuss a circle of topics that do not cause controversy.
• The fact is that the teenager himself does not realize that he is addicted , it seems to him that at any moment he can quit everything.
• You can invite him to record ( or example ; in his personal diary)the time he spends on the internet.
• The main thing is to push him to think independently that the problem exists.
• Refuse such high profile slogans. 'you can easily overcome everything.'
• It is not so simple and he will loose faith not only in himself but also in your support.
• You need to advance in small steps , which will require effort , but feasible , without sharp jerks bordering on a quick break down.
• Small steps must be combined with a return to temporarily forgotten other positive emotions.
• Each person has activities that bring him pleasure.
• Physical activity with its regularity , according to excepts , strengthens the will , which is necessary for adolescence.
• It is not at all necessary to achieve . High result in sports the main participation and the feeling of one's versatility.
• Teenagers are very vulnerable to their actions , and even appearance.
• Parents should not compare them with either brothers or sisters or with other children.
• He must understand that he is loved for who he is and to try to improve himself.
• In order overcome computer addiction , it is necessary to take into account the personal characteristics of each child and to develop their own individual approach to eliminating the problem.

Important notes :

When a teenager is in a trusting relationship with parents , feels their sincere support and also has diverse interests and friends then he will able to more easily  resist virtual temptations !!

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